Single people who live alone are among the loneliest during the lockdown. Some experience depression, some experience anxiety, some have the combo of both, and some simply experience boredom. So in case youāre back to the lockdown restriction, you need to know what to do to make you feel better when you’re alone. Here is a list of activities that may help lonely people to lighten up.
Category: Serious Stuff
This section is mainly for the observation and thoughts I have about life and people. In a mindful, serious manner. Mostly.
Don’t Get Attached to the Outcome, Just Enjoy the Moment… What? How?
Ever heard some wise sayings about not to get attached to the outcome and just enjoy the moment? I have. Often. As a goal-oriented enthusiast whoās passionately searching for better self-improvement, of course I have difficulty digesting this slogan. The above slogan seems to be mindless and irresponsible.
What Is Self Love
I used to think that āto love myselfā meant spoiling myself, indulging in all things and situations that make me feel good. Regardless of the consequences. Of course this concept is wrong.
Boring People Don’t Exist – Everyone Is Special
Ever since I was a kid, Iāve always suspected that thereās no such thing as āboring peopleā. Every time I think a person is boring, Iād challenge myself to find why he/she appears to be boring. Do they find themselves boring too? Whatās in their head? How can they live like that?
Why Telling “Don’t Judge” Does Not Work
We often hear people say āDonāt judgeā but do we, and do they, really look at others without judging? Be honest. And then it doesnāt just stop at āDonāt judgeā, the general advice would extend to, ābe compassionateā.
The Purpose of Life
Many people have prioritised happiness in such a way that it has become their life’s purpose. But is it true that happiness is ‘the’ life’s purpose?
To a Friend Who Is Having Suicidal Thoughts
Iām writing this letter not to ruin your fun in glorifying death. I do agree with you that death does sound better than life.